tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271959060195052715.post5860822680662077732..comments2023-11-03T04:01:35.940-07:00Comments on Desert Canyon Living: Q is for QuestionsIngerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02924736131382149056noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271959060195052715.post-2395172676344692012016-04-20T14:13:03.424-07:002016-04-20T14:13:03.424-07:00Ah, my love, the pain in your words . . .
Love,...Ah, my love, the pain in your words . . . <br /><br />Love,<br />JanieJanie Junebughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10573607241326291404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271959060195052715.post-38176555307154077462016-04-20T11:31:13.951-07:002016-04-20T11:31:13.951-07:00you touched my heartyou touched my heartshortybearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06104822128450697901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271959060195052715.post-20075533784306346862016-04-20T11:02:10.663-07:002016-04-20T11:02:10.663-07:00You made me cry!!You made me cry!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271959060195052715.post-25922795706710201262016-04-20T10:08:59.427-07:002016-04-20T10:08:59.427-07:00I think it is normal for us to continue to ask que...I think it is normal for us to continue to ask questions! I love the quote at the beginning of your post!!Paulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17406717262345866373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271959060195052715.post-7996190941590193492016-04-20T08:40:17.449-07:002016-04-20T08:40:17.449-07:00Hard not to ask yourself could I have done more? Y...Hard not to ask yourself could I have done more? You did the absolute utmost, Inger, and I believe the hospital and wonderful doctors did too.Q could well be for Quantity, the caring ,the love, the travelling, the worrying you did for so long, and for Quality, of all the above.In my life I, too, have a lot of " What if I ??", and have to tell myself not to. Hugs from a colder NZ. 3.40 a.m. awake, didn't get back to sleep.. lit the fire and reading your words.Nancy Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11854698513524662527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271959060195052715.post-91612938608883112892016-04-20T08:31:27.903-07:002016-04-20T08:31:27.903-07:00I think questioning is pretty normal. I did it aft...I think questioning is pretty normal. I did it after Steele and find myself doing it now that my mother has passed. I believe that it's a good thing to examine and learn but not if it become paralyzing. TeresaAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05311118900077951863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271959060195052715.post-35503842897216005472016-04-20T08:19:15.879-07:002016-04-20T08:19:15.879-07:00Hi Inger - so often it's after things have hap...Hi Inger - so often it's after things have happened ... when it's too late ... the best thing is ... you did your best - and sometimes we can't cope with the information or thinking on our non-medical feet ... so difficult for you ... my thoughts for you - and a hug - HilaryHilary Melton-Butcherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17596532480645510678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271959060195052715.post-69513444622509540292016-04-20T07:30:20.638-07:002016-04-20T07:30:20.638-07:00We could ask forever. We do the best we can like ...We could ask forever. We do the best we can like you did. May the healing begin.Gailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04219479223227928561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271959060195052715.post-87114699026025386922016-04-20T07:10:05.487-07:002016-04-20T07:10:05.487-07:00We all tend to beat ourselves up with "what i...We all tend to beat ourselves up with "what ifs". Truth is we do the best we can because we can't possibly know all the hidden variables. Just know you did all the caring and loving he could have asked for. You left nothing back that was in your power. Arkansas Pattihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14156004753267665579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271959060195052715.post-31325329667321932092016-04-20T06:17:23.211-07:002016-04-20T06:17:23.211-07:00That's the thing about questions, you never kn...That's the thing about questions, you never know which one to ask.Sharonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02743921972328074980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271959060195052715.post-62974842770538370102016-04-20T05:46:57.571-07:002016-04-20T05:46:57.571-07:00i can feel your pain in this, I am the queen of if...i can feel your pain in this, I am the queen of if only and what if's and can fully understand where you<br />are coming from on the wondering part.. you did what you could and that is all that you could do.MadSnapperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08163140037276496519noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271959060195052715.post-36425765375708548302016-04-20T04:56:32.785-07:002016-04-20T04:56:32.785-07:00Life is filled with "what ifs", but they...Life is filled with "what ifs", but they matter not. What did matter is that you were by his side and did all you could for your beloved. Starting Over, Accepting Changes - Maybehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06032033918798053005noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271959060195052715.post-25117807064558638012016-04-20T04:11:13.284-07:002016-04-20T04:11:13.284-07:00You did the absolute best you could in the moment ...You did the absolute best you could in the moment and your husband knows that, too ... be gentle with yourself. Sending lots of support across the miles.The Daily Pip https://www.blogger.com/profile/17071013559078816245noreply@blogger.com