Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans.
~ John Lennon
This merry month of May has been anything but. My husband is seriously ill and I have kind of hinted at this, but since we only expect to find out everything in the next week or two, I should have kept my mouth shut and until we know exactly what is going on. And let our closest friends who read my blog know in person. I didn't mean to worry anyone, I was just writing down whatever came into my somewhat numb and foggy brain.
My dear friends, please accept my apologies for not thinking through what I put on my blog.
Fran, thank you for your comment. My nameless husband is home now and he appreciated the thought of a visit so much. UCLA hospital treated him very, very well, so that's good. He is getting the best of care and we will let you know what happens.
I named my blog Desert Canyon Living and sometimes the living is easy, other times more difficult. All I want to do here in the future is keep it real.
My dear friends, please accept my apologies for not thinking through what I put on my blog.
Fran, thank you for your comment. My nameless husband is home now and he appreciated the thought of a visit so much. UCLA hospital treated him very, very well, so that's good. He is getting the best of care and we will let you know what happens.
I named my blog Desert Canyon Living and sometimes the living is easy, other times more difficult. All I want to do here in the future is keep it real.
Hej där borta!
ReplyDeleteHoppas din man repar sig bra nu när han har kommit hem.
Vi har en varm dag idag ...det var svettigt att gå morgonpromenad med hundarna.
Vi parade Tyra i torsdags o hoppas på valpar nu. Ayla och Trym fick nog inte till det här hemma. Jag hade behövt ha någon mer hjälp då hon satte sig hela tiden. DÅ nådde ju Trym inte upp. Har vi tur har de fixat det själva när jag var iväg 3 tim med Tyra för att ta progesteronprov.
Varma kramar till er båda!!
Majsan//
I thought what you wrote was fine.. so not sure what the apology is for. we all care about you and your hubby and praying now for healing and strength...
ReplyDeleteSandra, I just don't like to worry others with my own worries. Vague hints at major illness just seemed wrong to me. Anyhow, I feel a lot better today. Thanks for your prayers.
ReplyDeleteI hope your husband continues to get better. I'm glad he got such good care in the hospital. You and him will be in my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteOh, Inger -- I'm so sorry he is ill. I hope that the doctors will have better news. I will keep you both in my heart.
ReplyDeleteI'm behind you all the way - no matter what. No apology needed - your blog is your place to say what you want. Sometimes it helps to see our thoughts and fears and celebrations on the screen. Prayers to you, your hubby and Samson.
ReplyDeleteno need to apologize! we can only offer prayers to assist both of you and completely understand that your husband wants his privacy, too. i do hope you will get answers soon!
ReplyDeleteLike the others have said, you don't need to apologize. You are just reaching out and we understand. We care because we know what it feels like to worry about those close to us.
ReplyDeleteTake care, we will send healing wishes your way.
Oh Inger HUGS lots of hugs. Xoxo B
ReplyDeleteSending you both lots of {{{hugs}}}
ReplyDeleteI hope your husband gets well and everything turns out fine. I've been though that with my wife. I remember how hard it was, but all was well in the end.
ReplyDeleteOh Inger, I'm so sorry your husband is ill. May he get better soon. Hugs to you, dear.
ReplyDeleteInger,like the title of my last blog post sometimes you just have to empty your head. If you write sometimes you have to empty the bad stuff to get to the good stuff. I'll be thinking of you both and hoping for good news.
ReplyDeleteWorrying makes us compassionate. Sometimes we get overly compassionate...but thats okay, because being compassionate makes us real :)
ReplyDelete(((healing hugs to your men!!!!!)))
I am praying for you....need a shoulder to cry on you can email me. I know what having a seriously ill husband is all about. I will keep you in my thoughts
ReplyDeleteI admire you for 'keeping it real.' Unfortunately, because of a few people who stalk my blog, I'm unable to fully do that. But I'm glad you said something, so that me and others can keep you in our prayers for strength and courage for what's ahead!
ReplyDeleteInger, when we keep to ourselves and suffer in silence it serves no one. That why confession gives us so much relief.
ReplyDeleteThere's no need to apologize.
Just knowing that you husband is ill makes us more compassionate and we want to offer our prayers and love. I for one don't need to know the precise illness he has unless you freely want to share.
So I'm sending you love and prayers for a good outcome.
Hugs,
JB
Oh my dear Inger, I am so sorry to hear that your husband is ill.
ReplyDeleteI hope he will get better very soon.
There's no need to apologize.
I am sending to you both prayers and positive thoughts.
Lots of hugs and much Love.
I'm thinking of you both, and sending all the love I have your way. I wish I could do something to help. Praying that all will be OK. Lots of hugs and support, Hayley-Eszti
ReplyDeleteInger,so sorry to hear about all this. I knew you weren't feeling the best but had no idea about your husband. Happy that he is home now.
ReplyDeleteI understand about posting about health issues.....sometimes it can help not only the person suffering but also the care-giver.
Please take care Inger and we send you positive energy and thoughts.
You have nothing to apologize for. Your behavior is natural, human and normal for anyone in your stressful situation. It's not your fault and your readers understand. I'm sorry for your husband and hope he gets better, and my heart goes out to both of you in your time of troubles.
ReplyDeleteInger, you never have to say you're sorry!!!!...:)JP
ReplyDeleteI still don't know what happened - but God does and He knows who we are praying for and for what.
ReplyDeleteHugs, love, and prayers.
ReplyDeleteI pray for you and your husband.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Janie